After rushing into an engagement with a girlfriend that wanted to see us get married sooner than I was ready, my community rallied around me and help me decide to slow things down with her. She was not receptive to the idea of slowing down and we ultimately separated. But I got the ring back, so that's a win, right?? The bigger win is my wife of two years and our daughter due in March, so we dusted this thing off and want to get it into someone else's hands!