Terms & Conditions

  1. Binding Agreement.
    These terms of use (“TOU”) constitute a legally binding agreement between you and I Do Now I Don’t LLC (“IDNID,” “we” or “us”), the company that owns and operates the IDNID Service. By using the IDNID Website (the “Website”) and its related services (collectively, the “IDNID Service”), whether you are using it as a seller (a “Seller”), a buyer (a ” Buyer”) , or just a browser (a “Browser”)(each, a “User”), you agree to be bound by these Terms of Use (”TOU”).

    We may modify these TOU without notice to you, so you are advised to check the TOU periodically.

  2. Eligibility.
    You must be sixteen (16) or over to register as a User or use the Web site. Registration is void where prohibited. By registering and/or using the Web site, you represent and warrant that you have the right, authority, and capacity to enter into and abide by these TOU.
  3. Term and Termination.
    These TOU will remain in full force and effect as long as you are a User. They apply to anything you do through the Web site, which includes posting a ring or other piece of jewelry (each, an “Item”) for sale, buying jewelry, sharing your story, and any blogging or posting that you do through our Website respectively. We have the right to investigate any allegations that you have violated these TOU and to take whatever action we think is necessary or appropriate to remedy such violations, including, without limitation, terminating your User status and reporting your conduct to the appropriate legal authorities.
  4. Sale/Purchase Process.
    The way the sale and purchase processes work is described in detail in our How it Works page. For seller commission information, please How it works page. Posting your item for sales on I Do Now I Don’t is FREE of charge! (Buyers only pay the purchase price plus shipping. No tax either) So feel FREE to keep listing if your item does not get sold right away! Once a sale is finalized, IDID charges sellers a fee of 15% of the sale price  Buyers pay for shipping. Typically sellers receive 40-60% of the retail price for their item. Far better than a consignment, pawnshop or retailer will pay.IDNID is not a traditional auctioneer. Items are sold on a reserve auction basis, which means that the Seller does not have to accept any bid, even the highest bid, if it does not match the Seller’s reserve price. The posting for any Item will tell you if the Item is subject to a reserve price. If you are a Buyer, this means that even if you are the highest bidder on a particular ring or other piece of jewelry (each, an “Item”), you may not be able to purchase that Item. Once a Seller has accepted your bid on an Item, we wait approximately ten business days to receive that Item from the Seller. If we do not receive the Item from the Seller in that time, we will refund your money. If we receive the Item from the Seller but the Item has been damaged in shipping, we will refund your money. Otherwise, when we receive the Item from the Seller, we have our GIA-trained gemologist examine the Item to make sure that the Item is as described by the Seller. The gemologist is responsible for checking the 4 C’s defined by the Gemological Institute of America for diamonds, which are cut, clarity, color, and carat. If those features do not match the Seller’s description, we will notify you and give you the option to either accept the Item as is or ask for a refund. If the gemologist certifies that the diamond is consistent with the Item as described by the Seller, then we ship the Item to you via UPS. If when you receive the Item, you discover that it has been damaged in shipping, you must notify UPS, not IDNID, and make a claim directly with UPS. IDNID buys shipping insurance through UPS but IDNID is not responsible for and does not get involved in Buyer claims against UPS.
  5. Correcting Erroneous Bids, Refunds and Buy-Back Guarantee.
    If you are a Buyer, we want you to be happy with your purchase and the IDNID Service. So, we offer the following assurances:
    1. If you hit the “buy” button by mistake.
      If you hit the “buy” button by mistake, you must notify us within one hour so we can notify the Seller. You must insert “Hit Buy Button by Mistake” in the Subject Line of the Email. If you do not notify us in that time, with that subject line, then we will suspend your account.
    2. If the Seller sends a different Item.
      If you purchase an Item, and when we receive the Item from the Seller, we determine that the 4 C’s are not as the Seller described them, we will notify you to give you the option of still buying the Item as is, getting a discount if the Seller agrees, or receiving a refund
    3. If you receive a diamond Item and then change your mind.
      If you buy a diamond Item through the IDNID Service and decide it's not for you, we'll take it back and give you a credit as follows:
      1. You return the Item to IDNID within ten days of receipt by you (see “Selling Guide” for our address) using IDNID’s UPS account
      2. Once we receive the diamond Item, our gemologist will examine it to confirm that the diamond and setting in the Item are identical to those in the Item that we sent you.
      3. If the diamond and setting in the Item are identical to the diamond and setting in the Item we wsent you, we will provide you with a one-time credit that can be used to make another purchase exclusively on IDNID within 30 days. The credit will be calculated as the wholesale price for the diamond per the industry-standard Rappaport Diamond Report minus 45%. For example, a diamond valued at $5,000 by Rappaport would entitle you to a $2,750.00 credit.
      4. If you do not use the credit within 30 days of the date of the credit, the credit will expire. We will not notify you of the expiration date after sending you the initial notification of credit.
  6. If You Are a Seller.
    If you are a Seller, you agree that:
    1. You will not misrepresent the quality or characteristics of any Item that you advertise for sale on the Website or doctor any photograph of any Item that you post.
    2. You will not list stolen, non-authentic, non-existent Items for sale on the IDNID Website.
    3. If you auction off an Item and someone wins, you will send that exact Item to us without two business days, according to the procedures described in the “Selling Guide.” [put link]. You will not send any substituted merchandise.
    4. You will not terminate an auction prior to its stated end date unless you have received no bids.
    5. You will not negotiate outside the scope of the IDNID Website with any Buyer or any potential Buyer, or anyone who has seen the Item(s) you are offering or become aware that you are offering such Item(s) through IDNID.
  7. If You Are a Buyer:
    If you are a Buyer, you agree that:
    1. You will not bid on any Item unless you have a good-faith intention to buy it if you win and you have sufficient funds to make the purchase at the bid price.
    2. You will not pay for any Item with an unauthorized credit or debit card or a check that does not clear for any reason or in any other way fail to pay the agreed-upon purchase price for any Item.
    3. If an Item that you buy is damaged in shipping when we send it to you, you will contact UPS and resolve the matter and not seek to involve IDNID. IDNID pays for insurance as part of your shipping cost but IDNID does not get involved in claims or disputes between any Buyer and UPS.
    4. You will not negotiate outside the scope of the IDNID Website with any anyone who is offering an Item through the IDNID Service to purchase such Item.
  8. Posting of Content on the Website

    1. You are solely responsible for the content (“User Content”) that you publish or display ("post") on the Website. We have the right, but not the obligation, to review posted User Content and remove it or take other action if we determine that it is not appropriate for posting on the Website (“Inappropriate User Content”), and you will be liable for any damages that IDNID may incur as a result of any Inappropriate User Content that you post. Inappropriate User Content includes material, or links to material, that:
      1. Defames another person who is identifiable from your posting.
        Very generally speaking, to defame someone is to say something that is not true about that person, in a way that enables the listener or reader to identify that person, to someone else, that causes harm to the person’s reputation. (To libel someone is to defame someone in writing.) Certain kinds of statements are “defamation per se” according to the applicable law, which means that if you say one of these things about someone and it is not true, the person does not even have to prove that the person suffered financial damages: he or she will be presumed to have suffered financial damage. So, even if your ex-husband had an affair with your teenage daughter’s best friend, or stole money from your bank account, BE VERY, VERY CAREFUL about how you identify him in your posting. Even if you don’t give his name, he may still be identifiable from your description of him, of you, your family, your children, your neighborhood, your church or synagogue, or your job, or just from your user name, if it is your real name or an identifiable version of your real name. If the person sues IDNID, you will be liable for any money that IDNID has to pay to defend against the claim, even if what you said was true. This is not legal advice. If you have any doubt about what you can and cannot say, you should consult a lawyer who specializes in defamation.
      2. Violates the right of privacy of someone who is identifiable from your posting, which, very generally speaking, means publishing private or intimate facts about someone who is identifiable from your posting, that cause that person embarrassment, or publicizing facts in a “false light,” or showing a photo of a person along with a story about someone else in a way that makes it look like the person in the photo was the subject of the story. This is not legal advice. If you have any doubt about what you can and cannot say, you should consult a lawyer who specializes in privacy law; or
      3. Is patently offensive to the online community in some other way, such as content that promotes racism, bigotry, hatred or physical harm of any kind against any group or individual; harasses or advocates harassment of another person; involves the transmission of "junk mail", "chain letters," or unsolicited mass mailing or "spamming"; is false, misleading or promotes illegal activities or conduct that is abusive; is threatening, or obscene; contains restricted or password only access pages, or hidden pages or images (those not linked to or from another accessible page); exploits people under the age of 18 in a sexual or violent manner, solicits personal information from anyone under 18; provides instructional information about illegal activities such as making or buying illegal weapons, or providing or creating computer viruses; solicits passwords or personal identifying information for commercial or unlawful purposes from other users; or facilitates or constitutes part of commercial activities and/or sales such as contests, sweepstakes, barter, advertising, and pyramid schemes.
    2. By posting any User Content to IDNID, whether in your listing of Items that you want to sell, in your account of how you came to sell (or buy) an Item on this Website, or in any other way, you automatically grant, and you represent and warrant that you have the right to grant, to IDNID an irrevocable, perpetual, non-exclusive, fully paid, worldwide license to use, copy, perform, display, and distribute such information and content and to prepare derivative works of, or incorporate into other works, such information and content, and to grant and authorize sublicenses of the foregoing.
  9. Copyright Protection Policy.
    If you believe that User Content that you own has been posted on the Website without your permission, please provide our Copyright Agent with the following information: an electronic or physical signature of the person authorized to act on behalf of the Seller of the copyright interest; a description of the copyrighted work that you claim has been infringed; a description of where the material that you claim is infringing is located on the Website; your address, telephone number, and email address; a written statement by you that you have a good faith belief that the disputed use is not authorized by the copyright Seller, its agent, or the law; a statement by you, made under penalty of perjury, that the above information in your notice is accurate and that you are the copyright Seller or authorized to act on the copyright Seller's behalf. Our Copyright Agent for notice of claims of copyright infringement can be reached as follows: customercare@idonowidont.com.
  10. Ownership of IDNID Content.
    We own all proprietary rights in the IDNID Service and the Website, including, without limitation, all trademark rights in IDNID name and logo, all patent rights in the IDNID Service, and all copyright and other rights in the content that we display or post on the Website (“IDNID Content”). You may not copy, publish, transmit, distribute copies of, perform, display, or modify any IDNID Content except as is necessary to use the Website.
  11. Limitations on Use of the IDNID Service.
    We operate the IDNID Service solely to enable people to sell and buy Items. IDNID itself never acquires, holds, or transfers title to any Item. Whether you are a Seller or a Buyer, you may not use it in connection with any commercial activity or for any of the prohibited activities described in Section 6 below. We will investigate any illegal and/or unauthorized uses of the IDNID Service and we will take all legal action that we consider necessary or appropriate to ensure that such activity is stopped. Although IDNID cannot monitor the conduct of its Users offline, it is also a violation of these rules to use any information obtained through the IDNID Service in order to harass, abuse, stalk, or otherwise harm another person, or in order to contact, advertise to, solicit, or sell to any User without that User’s express prior written consent.
  12. Interaction and Disputes with Other Users; Release.
    Whether you are a Seller or a Buyer, other than as specifically provided in these TOU, you are solely responsible for your communication and interaction with other Users. If there is a dispute between any Seller and any Buyer, between any Buyer or Seller and UPS, between any other Users, or between Seller or Buyer and any third party, including, without limitation, UPS, IDNID is under no obligation to become involved, and you hereby release IDNID, its officers, employees, agents and successors in rights from claims, demands and damages (actual and consequential) of every kind or nature, including death, known or unknown, suspected and unsuspected, disclosed and undisclosed, arising out of or in any way related to such disputes and/or the IDNID Service. If you are a California resident, you waive California Civil Code Section 1542, which says: "A general release does not extend to claims which the creditor does not know or suspect to exist in his favor at the time of executing the release, which, if known by him must have materially affected his settlement with the debtor."
  13. Indemnity.
    You will indemnify IDNID and its subsidiaries, affiliates, officers, agents, and other partners and employees (the “IDNID Parties”) and hold them harmless from any loss, liability, claim, demand, fees and expenses, including reasonable attorney's fees, made by any third party due to or arising out of your use of the IDNID Service, including, without limitation, any claim arising from your breach of any of these TOU and/or any breach of your representations and warranties set forth above.
  14. DISCLAIMER OF WARRANTIES.
    1. IDNID EXPRESSLY DISCLAIMS ANY AND ALL WARRANTIES, EXPRESS OR IMPLIED, RELATING TO THE OPERATION OR YOUR USE OF THE IDNID WEBSITE, INCLUDING, WITHOUT LIMITATION:
      1. IF YOU ARE A SELLER:
        ANY WARRANTY TO THE EFFECT THAT YOU WILL FIND A BUYER THROUGH THE IDNID SERVICE.
      2. IF YOU ARE A BUYER:
        ANY WARRANTY THAT (i) EVEN IN A PARTICULAR AUCTION, EVEN IF YOU ARE THE HIGHEST BIDDER, YOU WILL BE ABLE TO BUY THE ITEM YOU ARE BIDDING ON; (ii) IF YOU DO WIN AN AUCTION FOR A PARTICULAR ITEM, THE ITEM WILL BE EXACTLY AS IT WAS ADVERTISED BY THE SELLER EXCEPT WITH RESPECT TO THE 4 C’S AS DESCRIBED IN SECTION 4 OF THIS POLICY; OR (iii) THE SELLER OF ANY ITEM OWNS THE RIGHT AND TITLE IN THAT ITEM NECESSARY TO CONVEY THE TITLE IN THE ITEM TO YOU.
    2. FOR ALL USERS.
      THE IDNID SERVICE IS PROVIDED ON AN "AS IS" OR "AS AVAILABLE" BASIS, WITHOUT ANY WARRANTIES OF ANY KIND. ALL EXPRESS AND IMPLIED WARRANTIES ARE EXPRESSLY DISCLAIMED TO THE FULLEST EXTENT PERMITTED BY LAW. IDNID EXPRESSLY DISCLAIMS ANY WARRANTY THAT THE IDNID SERVICE WILL ALWAYS BE AVAILABLE OR THAT IT WILL OPERATE ERROR-FREE, AND EXPRESSLY DISCLAIMS ANY LIABILITY FOR (i)) ANY INTERRUPTIONS TO THE AVAILABILITY OF THE SERVICE, WHETHER SUCH INTERRUPTIONS ARE DUE TO INTERNET EVENTS BEYOND IDNID’S CONTROL, TO PROBLEMS WITH THE IDNID SERVERS, OR TO PROBLEMS WITH YOUR COMPUTER OR YOUR INTERNET CONNECTION, AND (ii) ANY VIRUSES OR OTHER HARMFUL COMPONENTS THAT MAY HARM YOUR COMPUTER AS A RESULT OF YOUR INTERACTION WITH THE IDNID SERVICE. Some jurisdictions do not allow the disclaimer of implied warranties, some of the foregoing disclaimers may not apply to you insofar as they relate to implied warranties.
  15. LIMITATIONS OF LIABILITY
    UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES SHALL IDNID BE LIABLE FOR DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL OR EXEMPLARY DAMAGES (EVEN IF IDNID HAS BEEN ADVISED OF THE POSSIBILITY OF SUCH DAMAGES), RESULTING FROM ANY ASPECT OF YOUR USE OF THE IDNID SERVICE, WHETHER THE DAMAGES ARISE FROM USE OR MISUSE OF THE IDNID SERVICE OR THE WEBSITE; INABILITY TO USE THE IDNID SERVICE OR THE WEBSITE; THE INTERRUPTION, SUSPENSION, MODIFICATION, ALTERATION, OR TERMINATION OF THE IDNID SERVICE OR THE WEBSITE; ACTIONS TAKEN OR STATEMENTS MADE, BY A SELLER WHOSE ITEM YOU HAVE PURCHASED OR A BUYER WHO PURCHASES ANY ITEM THAT YOU HAVE ADVERTISED FOR SALE OR BY ANY THIRD PARTY WHOM YOU MAY MEET OR WITH WHOM YOU MAY COMMUNICATE AS A RESULT OF USING THE IDNID SERVICE; OR BY REASON OF ANY INFORMATION OR ADVICE RECEIVED THROUGH OR ADVERTISED IN CONNECTION WITH THE IDNID SERVICE OR THE WEBSITE OR ANY LINKS ON THE WEBSITE. THESE LIMITATIONS SHALL APPLY TO THE FULLEST EXTENT PERMITTED BY LAW. In some jurisdictions, limitations of liability are not permitted, so some of the foregoing limitations may not apply to you.
  16. Privacy.
    For our privacy policy, http://privacy-policy.truste.com/verified-policy/www.idonowidont.com
  17. Governing Law, Jurisdiction, Time Limit on Claims.
    If you have any dispute with us, the dispute will be governed by the laws of the State of New York without regard to its conflict of law provisions. You hereby submit to personal jurisdiction by and venue in the state and federal courts of the State of New York, City of New York. Regardless of any statute or law to the contrary, any claim or cause of action arising out of or related to use of the IDNID Service or the TOU must be filed within one (1) year after such claim or cause of action arose or be forever barred.
  18. Additional Terms.
    Our failure to exercise or enforce any right or provision of the TOU shall not constitute a waiver of such right or provision. If a court of competent jurisdiction holds any provision of the TOU invalid, the court should try to give effect to the parties' intentions as reflected in the provision, and the other provisions of the TOU will remain in full force and effect.